Allah
sent human beings into this world as Ashraf al-Mukhlukat, which includes both
men and women. From Adam and Bibi Hawa to this day, men and women are at peace
with each other through a special marriage. Islam gave our woman all the rights
that no religion gave to a woman. But when our Prophet said in accordance with
Allah's command, fear Allah in the matter of women. Give them a share in the
property. At the same time, the angry European pastor, steeped in disbelief and
confusion, was debating whether a woman had a soul or not. Allah has given a
woman the prominent place that the human race is created by Him. Allah has also
consolidated His oneness in the woman's heart in another way. A woman is never
an idiot in her love. His heart could not want two men at the same time.
Which
persons doubt their spouse or want to know about his old life after marrying
his wife, they make a big mistake. Many men ask their wives if you have any
affair before marriage? Will there be any boyfriend? Is every girl a boyfriend
?? Most married women never mention the painful doubts they face from their
husbands, and gradually, they become psychological patients. There are some
women in our society that even if they have four children, then the husband is
not suspected. Keep making. If a girl had broken a couple of engagements before
marriage, it would have been helpful for her to get advantage.
As Muslim,
men do not know that our prophets and companions even married divorced and
widowed women. But there is no mention of these women being subjected to
divorces or widows as a means of torture or suspicion. Does this mean to the
common man of today?
It is
commonly seen in the society that a man who loves his wife or is involved in
household chores; is considered a slave of his wife and does not know that he
seems to consider love to his wife a crime. Some men humiliate their wives with
pride in their kin that I put my wife at the tip of the shoe and have a
derogatory attitude in front of everyone. I have listen even from a man that
the wife is the slave of the husband because her right (Haq Mahar) is paid, so she
is liable to afford every trouble for her husband.
By doing
all these, no man can make a place in his wife's heart. Allah has appointed a
man to be the head of the household to his wife. When a girl comes into
marriage with a man, do good and do not disturb your marital life by talking
about the people here .Don't disrupt yourself in the flames of doubt or hurt
your wife mentally. Do not ruin your home by repeated calls or listening to a
ringing number. If nothing goes, people's lives are ruined by two honorable men
and women. If children are present, their lives are also ruined. Psychological
disorders arise. A pure relationship breaks down. The blame is essentially
placed on the girl or the woman. So please do not ruin your house due to the
doubts. Off course some people will criticize to my post that even if the wife
doubts, then the husband should remove the doubt from his wife and a man has
the right to four
marriages. The purpose is to treat wives in the same way that
is in accordance with the commands of Allah and His Messenger. Keep away from
misunderstandings and misconduct. Make a happy life for yourself and your family.
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