Actress and model Sadaf Kanwal says that the social traditions and cultures of Pakistan are that a married woman not only has to iron her husband's clothes but also has to carry his shoes.
The actress along with her husband Shahroze
Sabzwari joined TV Show Hamary Mehman on ARY News. The couple not only talked
openly about their future plans, but also about marital life and social issues.
In the same program, Sadaf Kanwal also
admitted that when she sang the item Song in 2017, she was young, now she has
grown up and will not do it again.
Sadaf Kanwal had sung the item song 'Kaif
O Saroor in the 2017 blockbuster film 'Lapata Afrad 2', which was highly
appreciated, as well as criticized for her dress and bold style. However, now she has said that 4 years ago she
did not understand singing the item on her behalf but now she has become
sensible.
Both said that no one was angry with
their decision to get married and they got married with the consent of the family.
Shahroze Sabzwari said that his friends
did not object to his decision to remarry Sadaf Kanwal and did not say anything
wrong.
He did not elaborate on his divorce from
his first wife, Syra Yousaf, but said he would respect her until she died.
According to Shahroze Sabzwari, Syra Yousaf
is not an ordinary woman but the mother of his daughter Nooray, so it is his duty
to respect her till her death.
The actor said that his daughter 7-year-old
Nooray is also free with Sadaf Kanwal and the two have a deep relationship, because
his second wife gave her daughter make-up and taught her to do make-up.
In response to a question, Shahroze
Sabzwari said that when Sadaf Kanwal sang the item Song in 2017, he did not
even know her. But now if his wife wants to do so, it is her choice and he will
not stop her.
In this regard, Sadaf Kanwal explained
that when she did 'Kaif-o-Saroor', she was young and childish, now she has
grown up, she has understood and her thoughts have changed.
"At younger stage, many people wear
clothes which shouldn't be worn as well as inappropriate things shouldn't be
done. But now she is mature and will not sing the item again," she said.
She said that singing of item song would
not be problem for her husband Shahroze Sabzwari. In fact, her own views have
changed and she has become wiser, so she will not do it again.
Sadaf Kanwal also talked thoughtfully on feminism
and women's march during the program and she said that she would not discuss
the issue. However, she wants to say that a wife should know about all requirements
of her husband.
As per actress, being a wife, every woman
should know about her husband's clothes and her husband other needs since, she
takes care of all things of her husband.
She said that it is social tradition and
culture Pakistan that a woman has to get married, she must has husband and as a
wife she has to iron her husband clothes and as well she should take off shoes
of his husband.
According to Sadaf Kanwal, although she
does not iron her husband's clothes or pick up his shoes. But she knows her husband
needs and every woman should have such knowledge. She added that as a wife, every
woman should also know when and what her husband likes to eat.
At the same time, the actress said that it
is not necessary for husband to be aware of his wife's necessities. She said
that which ladies consider needs of their husbands as insignificant are in a
way liberals. However, she did not criticize such women.
Such statement of Sadaf Kanwal sparked new
debate during which people seemed divided. Actress's statement caused stimulation
on social media as well she remained top trend on 30 and 31 July 2021.
Most people appreciated the actress's
emphasis on husband, while some criticized her for saying that it is not
necessary for husband to take care of
his wife's requirements.
Some people called Sadaf Kanwal's
statement a reflection of Pakistani traditions.
Where some people also called her Islamic
person as well as some criticized her over her performance and modeling in the previous
item song and said that she is now teaching the religion.
Many people also made memes on actress's
statement and also mocked her on calling her husband Shairoo and also shared
memes on her talking about feminism and liberalism.
Some people compared Sadaf Kanwal to
playwright Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar and said that both personalities have same
mentality but their faces are different.
Some people said that when they saw Sadaf
Kanwal's name in the top trend on Twitter on 31 July, they were worried what
the actress has now done. But when they checked, they found that this time she
was trending because of her good work.
Some people also targeted the luxurious
life of the actress and at the same time satirized her style.
Humara culture kya hai? Humara miya hai..
— MEESHA SHAFI (@itsmeeshashafi) July 30, 2021
mein ne shadi kee hai,
mein ne 🎾🏀⚽️🥎 uthanay hain
🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for this. I needed a laugh today.
And that sad, comical flute playing in the back is so perfect 👌🏼 https://t.co/zXc5dXhir6
‘Aurat bichari nahi hai’ noone’s crying about ironing clothes or knowing about their husbands!! Women are getting abused, raped and murdered on daily basis, and she thinks feminsim is about not babysitting husbands!?? And this feminism is ruining the cuLturE! #Sadafkanwal https://t.co/dvfQrRoQEi
— 🤡 (@hamnahabid) July 31, 2021
Lol bohat liberalzz aa gayein hein. The way she’s schooling women on how to be a wife. The irony. Why is this cringe worthy couple even given air time? I feel sad for anyone with this level of self loathing & internalized patriarchy. Pls sherry ko rakein. You did syra a favor! https://t.co/QN9CL6RB84
— Maheen Ghani (@maheenghani_) July 30, 2021
Aaj kal bohat liberals aa gaye haiN... pic.twitter.com/0De5pPivxQ
— Reema Omer (@reema_omer) July 30, 2021
Ok but what's with the statement, "Mujhey Sherry ka pta hona chahiye...Sherry ko mera nai pta hona chahiye??"
— Momina Sheikh (@bleh_who_cares) July 31, 2021
The respect and care a woman gives to her husband, if she expects the same from him in return, is that really to much to ask for??#SadafKanwal pic.twitter.com/ZzYFCfQd0z
Feminists and desi liberal after #SadafKanwal statement... pic.twitter.com/f2kmOts5MA
— Fahad Ali (@FahadAl70685191) July 31, 2021
Sadaf Kanwal should think before speaking.#SadafKanwal pic.twitter.com/ULa6E6Bx5B
It is pertinent to mention that that Sadaf Kanwal and
Shahroze Sabzwari were married in May 2020, before that there were rumors of a
relationship between the two.
Before Sadaf Kanwal, Shahroze Sabzwari
married Saira Yousaf in 2012 and both had a daughter Nooray. However, they had
separated from each during in March 2020.
Just a few months after her marriage to Shahroze
Sabzwari, Sadaf Kanwal had announced that she would not sing the item again and
now she said that she has become sensible, so she would not do such a thing.
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